How many times have you heard a guy remark..I can't believe she left me?

I left my husband nearly two years ago, but guess what? It actually took me several years to actually leave him. You see, most woman will work and fight for their marriage for a long time. They will suggest counselling, they will yell and scream, they will threaten and then one day all of this will stop. It's not because they have resigned themselves to a marriage of unhappiness. No, instead they switch focus. Instead of working on their failing marriage, they start a new plan. This plan is to leave the relationship/marriage, so while the guy is thinking, "Wow, things are finally good between us again." Your girlfriend or wife is planning her escape and when she finally tells you that it is over, you are shocked. You didn't see it coming. You had no idea she was unhappy. It's probably a Mars and Venus thing. She thinks about the troubled relationship on a daily basis, but he is only aware there are problems when they are actually arguing.

If only guys understood that it is actually good when their girlfriends or wives are fighting with them because it means they are fighting for the relationship. If the fighting stops, pay attention. It could mean that she is on her way out.